How Encino Parents Can Prioritize Sleep (Even with Kids at Home)
Get Some Sleep After Bedtime
It’s 10:47 PM. The kids are finally asleep, but the kitchen’s a disaster, and you haven’t had a moment to yourself all day. You know you should go to bed, but this quiet time feels precious. So you scroll on your phone, and suddenly it’s midnight. Tomorrow, you’ll be exhausted again—whether you’re facing a morning carpool to Lanai Road Elementary or getting toddlers ready for the day.
Sound familiar? Parents in Encino and the San Fernando Valley lose an average of 44 days of sleep during their child’s first year, and the exhaustion doesn’t stop there. But here’s the truth: sleep isn’t selfish—it’s essential for being the parent your kids need.
If you’ve tried everything and still can’t get the rest you need, it might be time to talk to a specialist. At Encino Center for Sleep & TMJ Disorders, we understand the unique challenges parents face and offer comprehensive sleep evaluations right here in the Valley. Don’t let another month go by running on empty—your family needs you at your best. Call us today at (818) 300-0070 to schedule a consultation and finally get the answers you deserve.

Why Parent Sleep Actually Matters
Sleep deprivation doesn’t just make you tired. It weakens your immune system, affects your mood and patience, and impairs the decision-making skills you need most as a parent. Research shows that well-rested parents create healthier family dynamics. Think of it like the airplane oxygen mask principle: you can’t take care of others when you’re running on empty.
The Real Sleep Obstacles for Encino Families
Beyond obvious challenges like night wakings and early risers, many Los Angeles parents experience “bedtime revenge procrastination”—staying up late because evening feels like the only time that’s yours. Between long Valley commutes, after-school activities, and the mental load (Did I sign that permission slip?), it’s no wonder Encino parents struggle with sleep. Add partner sleep inequity and guilt about prioritizing yourself, and you’ve got a recipe for chronic exhaustion.
Five Practical Strategies to Start Tonight
1. Set Actual Boundaries
Choose a realistic bedtime for yourself and protect it. Embrace “good enough”—the dishes can wait until morning. Set a screen-time cutoff one hour before bed; blue light suppresses melatonin and makes falling asleep harder.
2. Divide Duties with Your Partner
If you have a partner, create explicit systems: alternate who handles night wakings, establish weekend sleep-in rotations (Partner A on Saturday, Partner B on Sunday), and communicate needs clearly before resentment builds.
3. Create a Family Sleep Culture
Get kids on consistent schedules—predictable bedtimes benefit everyone. Use “ok to wake” clocks for early risers and teach age-appropriate boundaries (e.g., “unless it’s an emergency, we don’t wake mom and dad before the sun comes up”).
4. Optimize Your Environment for Southern California Living
Use white noise to mask sounds (especially helpful in Encino’s quieter neighborhoods, where early morning landscaping can wake you). Blackout curtains are essential for those bright California mornings. Keep your bedroom between 60-67°F—yes, even in the Valley heat. Your bedroom should be a sanctuary, not a storage unit for toys and laundry.
5. The 15-Minute Challenge
For one week, go to bed just fifteen minutes earlier than usual. That’s it. Most parents find this achievable and notice they feel better. Once established, try another fifteen minutes.
When Kids Interrupt
Night wakings: Respond with minimal stimulation—no lights, no conversation, just “It’s sleepy time.” Give babies a moment to resettle before rushing in. Call in backup if you’re up for the third time.
Early risers: Prep easy breakfast options the night before. Rotate morning duty with your partner. “Ok to wake” clocks work wonders for teaching appropriate wake times.
Nightmares: Comfort quickly, but with dim lights and calm voices. Stay in their room rather than creating new sleep dependencies.
Special Circumstances
Single parents: Build a support network—trade weekend childcare with other parents, ask family for occasional overnight help, or budget for paid support when possible.
Nursing parents: Partners can handle diaper changes and transfer the baby to and from the crib, allowing the nursing parent to stay in bed.
Special needs children: Don’t hesitate to work with medical teams or specialized sleep consultants. These challenges require professional support.
Local Resources for Encino Parents
If sleep issues persist, Encino and the San Fernando Valley offer excellent resources:
Family Support:
- Encino Family Resource Center
- West Valley Family YMCA (respite childcare programs)
- Local parenting groups through the Encino Neighborhood Council
Mental Health Support:
- Encino Hospital Medical Center (sleep medicine department)
- Valley Community Counseling Services
- Therapists specializing in parent burnout throughout the Valley
Don’t hesitate to reach out—taking care of your sleep is taking care of your family.
Start Small, Encino Parents
Choose one strategy to implement this week. Not “sleep more,” but something specific: “go to bed at 10:30 PM on weeknights” or “ask my mom to take the kids to the park on Sunday morning so I can sleep in.”
You deserve rest. Your children deserve a well-rested parent. And whether you’re navigating life in Encino, Sherman Oaks, or anywhere in the San Fernando Valley, everyone benefits when you’re running on actual sleep instead of caffeine and determination.
Chronic sleep problems rarely resolve on their own, and as a parent, you don’t have time to keep struggling. The Encino Center for Sleep & TMJ Disorders specializes in identifying and treating the root causes of sleep disorders—from sleep apnea to insomnia to TMJ-related sleep disruption. Our team serves families throughout Encino and the San Fernando Valley with personalized treatment plans that fit your life. Take the first step toward better sleep by calling (818) 300-0070 today.





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